Cyprus Project
About the project
The Cyprus project aimed to provide a voice for mothers from across Cyprus to share their experiences on motherhood and their transition to it, as well as highlight the needs of mothers in regard to policy reform and awareness raising.
This action is supported under the Grow Civic Programme funded by the European Union in 2020.
“Too often, women’s voices and opinions are not part of decision-making on national and global levels and therefore policies regarding gender equality are not actually being designed with the input of the actual target group. Thus, leading to failures to protect, uphold and leverage women.”
Shirin Jetha Dagseven
Conversations with mothers in Cyprus
Mothers were invited to submit their stories and take part in interviews to explore societal pressures and their effect, as well as relevant policy, including maternity and paternity leave, access to information, healthcare, childcare and employment.
A focus group was also held to discuss issues faced by mothers during the Covid-19 pandemic and lockdown, outlining areas that need to be addressed, both as a response to this specific emergency and in terms of long-term change.
In addition, a questionnaire was distributed to allow for the collection of both quantitative and qualitative data.
Our Findings
As a result of the feedback received from women, a set of recommendations was developed in the form of a report, highlighting the main needs of women and the changes in legal texts, policy and society that women asked for. The report was shared with the local media and distributed to non-governmental organisations (NGO’s) and duty bearers.
Download the recommendation report in English or Turkish
Interviews
Katerina Antoniou
“Every time that I would do something that was part of my life before being a mother, it was such a victory for me until I managed to be who I wanted to be while having the baby. I ‘ve reached that stage where, having the baby is not the end of the world – not the end of my world as an individual. It was a relief to realise that you can have a normal life, make choices, and be who you want to be in time. “
“It is very hard to be a mother of a disabled child. You have to be strong; you have to make sacrifices, you always have to be by their side. I tried my best. I remember not sleeping for four to five days, just so that she wouldn’t have a fit. I didn’t have anyone else around me from my family, I fought on my own.”
Meryem Gezici
Ioanna Steliou
“I had given birth in a private clinic and I couldn’t see my baby for three days. Then, my husband and I left the hospital without our baby. This is just a part of what almost every parent goes through after giving birth to a premature baby. And I know how difficult this is. What I want every parent to know is that hard times will pass, and their baby will come out of it stronger. And I wish them all to have faith, courage and be patient until their baby leaves the NICU.”
“How I am going to work if the schools are closed? It’s causing women to lose their jobs because women are taking on these responsibilities. But, policy makers don’t see it, they don’t prioritise it, they are gender biased….they are not running the system properly.”
Sureyya Celmen Deger
Motherhood Stories from Cyprus
Is a caesarean not a normal birth?
When I was almost 20 weeks pregnant, after my belly started to be visible…
Father and baby
After my son was born, my husband was only able to take 3 days off work.
My story of being a mother
Being a mother is one of the most exciting things that has ever happened to me…
Covid Surprise
“I found out I was pregnant at 6 weeks. My period was late and I was feeling sick..
I am not alone
I got married in February 2020, right before Covid-19, thank God.
Motherhood is a dilemma
I have two sons. When the first one was born, I understood that from now on life would never be the same
A Mother’s Journey with Autism
His ASD was confirmed to us at 17 months after seeing a few specialists in the field…
Lessons from the Madness of Motherhood
I am mummy to two little people (an eight-year-old and a five-year-old)…
Parenting and mental health during Covid-19
It took a pandemic to show my partner what I usually accomplish in a day while working…
Read more Motherhood Stories